“Do you know where pumpkins come from?” the little girl my wife watches some afternoons asked me yesterday. I love when little kids have something they are so proud of that they want to show you. She had learned about seeds and plants in her class that day. When she asked if I knew where pumpkins came from, I could have been insulted and said, "Of course I know where pumpkins come from." Instead I said, "No. Tell me where pumpkins come from." She showed me a chart she made in her nursery school class, and explained it to me. She had it down – seed goes in the ground, it grows into a plant, and the plant makes a pumpkin. Awesome. When she asked me if I knew where pumpkins come from, she wasn’t checking to see if I needed this special knowledge. Rather, she wanted to show off what she now knew. She wanted me to be impressed with her mastery of the subject matter of pumpkins. What a great moment.
Kids do that in all kinds of ways. When they learn to ride a bike, they get on it in the driveway and say, "Look at me!" before taking off. When the paint a picture, the ask to put it on the refrigerator and then ask everyone who visits to admire it with them, telling the visitor that they made it. Or when they learn a new trick on the skateboard or a new skill in their chosen sport, or a new song on piano – they say, "Look at me and what I can do!" That is an awesome moment! It’s great when kids do it, but what about when we don’t grow out of it? That’s one of the things that always made laugh at Stuart, Michael McDonald’s character on MadTV. Stuart, a grown man in kids clothes, maybe even footie pajamas, would often say, "Look what I can do!" and then doing something silly and simple. That’s what little ones do, not youth and certainly not adults… right?
By now I’m sure you’ve heard that the national drama that unfolded in our backyard, well just outside of Fort Collins, was a hoax. Balloon boy was never in the balloon, and his parents allegedly knew that all along. According to reports, the police believe that the family staged this to gain publicity for a reality show they would like to produce for television. Someone who worked with the dad was quoted in one of the reports as saying the proposed reality show would be "MythBusters-meets-mad scientist." Apparently after appearing on WifeSwap, Mom and Dad got used to being in the spotlight.
This story is strange and messy, but I also think there is something we can learn from it all. I keep thinking that each of us needs to answer this question: "To what lengths am I willing to go to get noticed?" Or putting it another way: "What am I doing that says, ‘Look at me’ in my life?" I suspect that all of us think that the balloon boy’s family crossed the line. But what’s your line? What’s mine?
A couple of weeks ago I was hanging out with our puppet people, as I call them because I love alliteration, whom you know as the PBJ Puppets, I asked them a question from The Book of Questions, "Would you like to be famous?" I was surprised when all 7 or 8 youth who where there said, "No." When I asked why not they replied by talking about the paparazzi and losing their privacy. But then we started to talk about how we would like to be known for being good at what we do – music, sports, acting, future career, etc. We don’t want to be famous necessarily, but we would like to be noticed.
Now let me be clear, there’s nothing wrong with that. We should want to get noticed. It’s a sign of a healthy ego – our image of who we are. Can you imagine going through life hoping no one ever notices you? That would be weird. But I think the need to be noticed can get way out of control. In other words, a little girl wanting to show me what she learned about pumpkins is a good thing. Making everyone think your kid is floating away in a balloon, not a good thing.
I happen to think our faith is a good defense against either of these extremes. First, we should feel good about ourselves. We are, in fact, Children of God. Don’t discount that. I heard one preacher say that the Devil tries to convince us that we’re poor – in money, in friends, in ability, in whatever – when really we are princes and princesses – children of the King! Or the way Jesus told his disciples, "You didn’t choose me, remember; I chose you" (John 15:16, Msg). How cool is that? We don’t normally think of it that way. We usually think we became Christians and chose Jesus, but Jesus says that he chose us! You have been selected by God. People should notice you. You are pretty special.
But then there’s the other side. That side where we know we’re not “all that and a bag of chips.” We’re not Jesus – not good enough. We are sinners in need of Him for our salvation. For example, the Apostle Paul writes, "I realize that I don’t have what it takes. I can will it, but I can’t do it. I decide to do good, but I don’t really do it; I decide not to do bad, but then I do it anyway" (Romans 7:18, Msg). I can relate. I’m just not the person I want to be, and even when I try to be good, I often fall short. But that passage continues, "The answer, thank God, is that Jesus Christ can and does" (Romans 7:25, Msg). There’s that balance. I can’t do it, but Jesus loves me and he can!
The other thing I seem to always hear is that people want to be famous so they can live forever. The weird thing is, I’m already planning on living forever. Jesus said, "I came so they [us] can have real and eternal [that means forever] life, more and better life than they ever dreamed of" (John 10:10, Msg). That living forever thing doesn’t come with fame, it comes with living for God, giving your life to Jesus.
So, I guess the question comes down to, "How do you see yourself?" You are not just what you do, how many friends you have, or who notices you. You are a child of God. You have been chosen by Jesus. You are loved by the God who created you. Yeah, you make mistakes, and can’t be who you want to be on your own, but with God, you can do anything! (Really! Read THIS!)
On your own you might need to be famous, but in relationship with Jesus you know who you are, because you know whose you are. You’ve been noticed, by God. And that makes all the difference.